Must reads to recognize & heal complex ptsd
Sadness, anger are important and nothing to be ashamed of
Have you ever felt ashamed of your sadness? Like, when you feel low but force yourself to look on the bright side?
If you grew up with a narcissistic mother, patterns of self-sabotage like people pleasing and perfectionism are survival strategies your inner child developed to keep you safe.
Your narcissistic mother has a deep impact on your love life. The way she treated you becomes the blueprint for how you navigate your adult relationships.
When a narcissistic mother shapes identity, a child doesn't simply feel sad or unseen. She learns that her needs are a problem. Over time, she stops asking, stops reaching, and starts adapting.
Have you ever felt ashamed of your sadness? Like, when you feel low but force yourself to look on the bright side?